Saturday, January 21, 2012

Are You Loyal?

 Loyalty~
 faithfulness, dependence, allegiance, attachment, devotion, reliability, submission, homage, bond, resolution, ardor, integrity, support...


I have been told by many a few
that at times I can be "too loyal"
to something...
or someone

Having support and guidance is very relevant in our daily lives..
we depend upon each other for so many things...
advice,
security,
guidance,
direction,
management,
 follow through,
leadership,
friendship,
safety,
enjoyment
satisfaction
pleasure 
honesty
faith,
truth
love...
these fulfill and reward us in so many ways...
socially
financially
religiously
academically 
hypothetically
politically
emotionally
personally
and physically ...

It is the bottom three that I am the most concerned with tonight! 



Being loyal doesn't always have to mean that you agree with someone...side with them...vote for them...cheer for them...agree with them...understand them...follow them...
 and do what they say...
Or does it?

I believe there is a fine line between being loyal and understanding loyalty...
One does not necessarily define the other! 
They don't always go...hand -in-hand
sometimes you wonder if you made a mistake...if your loyalty got the better of you...perhaps you tuned others out...decided not to listen...or chose that you just wouldn't

or possibly...
hurt someone in the process
including you!




Loyalty cannot be blueprinted.
it cannot be produced on an assembly line.
In fact, it can not be manufactured at all,
for its origin is the human heart-
the center of self-respect and human dignity.
It is a force which leaps into being only when conditions are exactly right for it-
and it is a force very sensitive to betrayal
Maurice R. Franks



 
As an athlete... how do you perceive loyalty...
At what cost do you follow it? 
listen to it?  
 betray it?

5 comments:

  1. Hi - thanks for the follow and nice comments on my blog about my wife's video. I'm a new follower. Also, I just read the ART blog before this one - hilarious. My wife and I go to ART from time to time and you're right - that guy bends my body in ways that I'm not sure it's intended to go. Have a great day!

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  2. Thanks Jim!! I am so not looking forward to it...but I'll let you know how it goes!!! ugh!
    You have a geat day as well!

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  3. Great post! Loyalty is important i think...but I'm learning when it comes to the sport I will follow it at all cost except when its at the cost of my health or infringing on my family...shall i say at the cost of my family time? I think in your situation you are doing everything right you are just not used to having to depend on others knowledge of what you should be doing...and you don't like the time game...which no one I think would. ARMS baby..ARMS....I'll take the before and after pics lol.!

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  4. I agree with Annette... I think loyalty to running in particular does require some sacrifices, but not to the extent of family or injury. But it does mean running when we don't feel like it, and pushing through the blah days. Of course, when we're not running, it can be doing whatever it takes to maintain some fitness and distraction to get us through!

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